Instead of silverware, consider using gold for the table. It is especially lovely with pearls.
Dried leaves spray painted gold make wonderful table decorations. If you would like, you can also write on them. Perhaps the wedding date?
I thought this was a fantastic idea to add that touch of gold. . . use gold spray paint on dried baby's breath. It would be beautiful mixed in your bouquet and all the floral decor. Actually, use it anywhere to good effect.
til next time,